TASK FOR MEETING SEVENTH

DESCRIPTIVE PARAGRAPH

TOPIC “YOUR DREAM FAMILY”

LIFE AFTER MARRIAGE

            Family is a kind of human relationship that united by consanguinity or by very close relation. All people have family in their life, weather in consanguinity or caused by very close relationship. Family by consanguinity may include of parent, son, daughter, grandparent, cousin, nephew etc. while family that formed by very close relation is mostly called kinship. In moslem perspective, the parameters of good family in consanguinity are sakinah, mawadah, warohmah (peace, love, and blessed).

          My dream family include of sakinah, mawadah, warohmah. Five years later I plan to get married with my ideal husband, exactly in my 24^th years. I wish my wedding is covered by a big party and go to beautiful place for honey moon. I always dream to have a family with full filled necessary such having a big house located at a fresh developed village, having luxurious car, permanent job, big company, etc.  I want to have a smart son and beautiful daughter who have higher education. Especially for my son, I want him to enter cottage, then he can be a hafidz. And for my daughter, I want her to enter medical academy. As a moslem, she should wear veil.

          Furthermore, my dream family is a comfortable family that in full harmony. I want my husband has enough time for his family, even is a hard worker, but family is the priority. So we can go on vocation. I wish me and my husband would be a good parent that control the children’s development very closely.

          Therefore, same as when I looked boy friend, I also have some criteria for my ideal husband. Because, marriage is once in my all life, so I don’t want to choose the wrong guy. The first criteria of my husband are religion. My mother said the religion is the important thing to having family. She also said that the person who can lead you to the heaven is your husband. Second, he is a hard worker and has permanent job. Third, he isn’t smoker. Fourth, a man who loves his family and be responsible. 

          In conclude those all are still in my dream. But now I have my confidence to have them all. Because I’m already find the person who has the most of criteria above. At last, I wish those all come true and be a family that include of sakinah, mawadah, warohmah.